Signs that you Childs Yaya is Abusive

It's really hard to find a trusted Yaya now a days, although as of today Keona's Yaya seems like a nice one. But I'm not worried because my mom is always at the house to monitor Keona and the Yaya. Some parents on the other hand are not as luck like us, and may have a Yaya that is abusive to their children without them ever knowing it.

Common signs of abuse in children are depression, withdrawal, low self esteem, and frequent crying. For physical abuse, there may be unexplained markings. Another sign us if your child child seems terrified of his Yaya. Unfortunately Yaya who abuse their ward are pretty good at hiding things, often giving their ward stern warnings. They are also good at acting model as model employees when their employers are around.

The child may show irrational fears or anxiety towards the Yaya and dislikes being left alone with her. Constant bed wetting even if the child is already toilet trained is a sign of trauma, although the cause may not usually be the Yaya. Thumb sucking is another indicator of stress, and if you notice that your child seems happier when Yaya goes on her day off, then pay closer attention to how she treats your child.

Spanking

Here one article I found at the library. Spanking can bring problems later. A domestic abuse expert from University of New Hampshire says that spanking children affects their sex lives as adults. A professor concludes that children who are spanked are more likely as adults to coerce partners to have sex, to have unprotected sex and to have masochistic sex. Other studies have shown the link between spanking and physical violence, while their research is the first to show a link between corporal punishment and sexual behavior.

They suggest pediatrician and child-rearing experts to warn against spanking, and also want lawmakers to take a stand by dedicating state money to teaching parents about the dangers of corporal punishment.

"The best-kept secret in child psychology is that children who were never spanked are among the best behaved" - Professor Murray Straus

(Here in the Philippines, sometimes when I ride a jeep back from work I would witness some mothers would spank their children if they would make a slight mistake or would trip themselves walking and I would tell myself if I would have a child, man I'm never gonna do that)