Showing posts with label Violence and Abuse. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Violence and Abuse. Show all posts

Tuesday, February 22, 2011

Signs that you Childs Yaya is Abusive

It's really hard to find a trusted Yaya now a days, although as of today Keona's Yaya seems like a nice one. But I'm not worried because my mom is always at the house to monitor Keona and the Yaya. Some parents on the other hand are not as luck like us, and may have a Yaya that is abusive to their children without them ever knowing it.

Common signs of abuse in children are depression, withdrawal, low self esteem, and frequent crying. For physical abuse, there may be unexplained markings. Another sign us if your child child seems terrified of his Yaya. Unfortunately Yaya who abuse their ward are pretty good at hiding things, often giving their ward stern warnings. They are also good at acting model as model employees when their employers are around.

The child may show irrational fears or anxiety towards the Yaya and dislikes being left alone with her. Constant bed wetting even if the child is already toilet trained is a sign of trauma, although the cause may not usually be the Yaya. Thumb sucking is another indicator of stress, and if you notice that your child seems happier when Yaya goes on her day off, then pay closer attention to how she treats your child.
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Monday, February 7, 2011

What to do When your Child is being Bullied

Yup, bullying can be found anywhere, especially on schools, no matter how big or small, public or private schools. There is always a person who loves to bully others. Here are some simple tips if you suspect that your child is getting bullied.

1. BE OBSERVANT. It's important that parents are present in their children's lives. Be observant of your child, he'll start behaving differently. Even if you ask them flat out, "is there anybody bullying?" They'll likely deny, especially if the bully is someone they look up to or admire. Of course, they won't say that the person is mean to them because they want to be friends with that person.

2. MEET THE TEACHER. If you notice that your child is acting differently. Ask for a meeting with his teachers. They'll be more than willing to help you.

3. BE THERE FOR YOUR CHILD, ALWAYS.
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