Tips For Surviving Tantrums

Here are 8 tips on dealing with your child's tantrum.

1. Remain calm while it lasts. Try not to shout at the child or, worse, hit him. "We should refrain from attacking aggressive behavior like tantrums with another aggressive behavior, whether physical or verbal.

2. Let the child go through his tantrum until he tires and stops on his own. This way, he will know that the strategy is not effective because you do not respond positively.

3. Walk away but stay close enough. To be able to see the child as he gets through his tantrum. You can pretend to be busy so your child will see that his tantrum does not affect you.

4. When a child is over his tantrum and has quieted down, talk to him to find out the reason for his behavior. It is important for parents to know why their child is acting that way and look for possible reason behind the tantrum. When parents take time out to talk to their child calmly to find out the reason for the tantrum, they will be able to find a solution.

The child may be crying because he's feeling sleepy and irritable. Parents must be able to assess the mood of their child so that when he's feeling sleepy, they can set up the environment for a restful nap.

5. Offer alternatives when your child throws a tantrum. Because his bored, does not have anything to do, or is not allowed to do what he likes. Prepare activities for the child, things that he likes to do, so he can have something to look forward to.

6. If your child is prone to throwing tantrums while in public places like mall, have a talk with him before you leave the house. Discuss preconditions with your child, like you will all go home at a certain time or you have only much money.. to buy a particular items. This helps prepare a child's mindset.

You can also talk to him about the consequences of such behavior in public places. Explain to him what happens when he has his outbursts and what he and you will feel when people stare at you.

7. Be consistent. If you waver and bend the rules based on occasion, whatever tactics you decide to employ will loose their effectiveness. This will convince your child even more that tantrums can work.

8. If the situation worsens, take action. If the child tantrums become more frequent and more severe, it is best for parents to seek professional help.